The BPM is here to stay
The Body Positivity Movement has helped people become more confident in their bodies and reformed societal views.
September 22, 2020
The Body Positivity Movement encourages people to embrace the body they were born with. The objective is to promote self-esteem, self-love, and self-confidence. And while the Body Positivity movement can be seen (by some) to be “unhealthy” because it doesn’t focus on achieving a physically fit body, it focuses on mental health, which is just as important. I have struggled with my body image before and as I started to understand this movement, I began to feel more confident about myself, and you can too.
A common misconception is that the Body Positivity Movement focuses on encouraging people with unhealthy bodies. But this isn’t the case. Every single person is different and has different physical qualities, so assuming that someone is “unhealthy” because of their body type can be dangerous.
With the growing awareness of and spread of mental health issues (eating disorders, included) we must learn as a society to accept ourselves and others. We cannot tell someone that their body should look a certain way because of unrealistic norms (particularly those created in the media).
If someone has a health issue, it’s up to their doctors to discuss it with them as opposed to unsolicited health advice or expectations from others, as people have less control over their health than you would think.
As a society, we’re constantly getting more and more knowledgeable about the impact of genetics on physical body attributes and mental health afflictions. The results are in— genes have incredibly powerful impacts on body weight (there are 400 genes that have been implicated in obesity) . If someone is born with genes that lead to a slower metabolism, they are going to struggle with their weight. That is something that is far more difficult to change than once was thought.
The same goes for mental health issues like depression.
The bottom line is you don’t know what people go through, and you don’t know their genetic makeup, so you have no right to judge or concern yourself with how they look. The Body Positivity Movement is about self-love. It is about looking within oneself and regaining that power and self-assurance that so many have been robbed of from years of societal judgment. The movement has changed the way many people see themselves.
The movement has also changed the standard of beauty. There is no longer the set beauty standard of the “tall, skinny, beautiful girl” or the “tall, muscular boy.” The world is now starting to accept everyone, and companies have begun creating and marketing clothing to fit realistic body standards.
Thus body positivity has been an uplifting movement that has helped change many industries for the better.
The Body Positivity Movement isn’t about promoting an unhealthy lifestyle, or lowering the standards of health and motivation. It is about promoting who you are, how you look, and how you should feel.
I, personally, have been body-shamed, and so I feel very passionately that people need to embrace this movement and learn to love and respect everyone. This movement is trying to heal the wounds that have kept people from loving themselves.
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leslie landberg • Jul 26, 2021 at 12:46 pm
I have been involved with fitness for a long time. My journey started with an obsession with my image, but after a few years I cam to the conclusion that I had a unique body type which can’t be defined by societal norms and the only truly healthy way forward was to like myself as I was while going towards what was the best version of ME and not of someone else.
I then got into the best shape of my life and had no further issues with “cheating” and trying to stay slim. I am naturally muscular with large calves and a “black girl” butt (I’m white so that is an asset, believe me). I was never going to have slender calves and my shoulders were broad and arms muscular as well. I had narrow hips, like a guy. And stubby hands. I could get all worked up about how weird I was or embrace myself and simply focus on my health and fitness.
I noticed that a lot of my friends who had the best relationships and were happiest were old or obese. But they never lacked for companions. That was a big turning point for me. I’ve always been at or near my ideal weight. But it makes no difference because beautiful people suffer just as much as “ordinary” people. They are cruel to themselves and is it any wonder such insecure people are then cruel to others, as well?
I think accepting and loving yourself is fundamental to the pursuit of mental and physical health. Now I’m in menopause and I’m having trouble with “visceral fat”, which is dangerous. But I will never succumb to telling myself I am unloved because I have extra weight on any part of my body. Keep positive and just go for health!
GK • Jun 26, 2021 at 1:23 am
Absolutely yes! The BPM is here to stay. The argument against BPM is quite rubbish, if seen rationally. First of all, BPM does NOT only talk about overweight people. This is exactly the problem with Humankind. We just put things in boxes, ties them up, and don’t see that humans and such campaigns are a spectrum, not a block. All BPM is saying is that our external appearance is natural, and there is no need to change our face, looks, body to fit into the ‘perfect’ somebody created, nobody knows when. Why is tall and thin, with no pimples and acne considered healthy? Isn’t pimples something that every human has at some point in their life? Then why is their so much insecurity surrounding it? This is just one mere example in a sea of such insecurities which have been ingrained into us for unrealistic beauty standard. Well written article ??
Tommy • Jan 19, 2022 at 3:00 am
but what do BPM really promote?